Another lurker here. I’m also a big fan of your blog, and I’m so sorry to hear that people have been being mean and rude to you.

I don’t want to be too personal, but in a spirit of friendliness and helpfulness– if your bra isn’t giving you enough support, perhaps you have got the wrong size? As someone who has had a heck of a time finding out what fits and what doesn’t (well-endowed and small rib cage, in my case), I know what a difference the right fit can make, and it’s kind of a personal mission with me to get the word out. So I’d like to encourage you to reevaluate your sizing–here are some web pages that might help:

Check out Cat’s Bra Resource Page:
http://www.ugcs.caltech.edu/~cat/bra.html

and the fitting advice at Figleaves:

http://www.figleaves.com/us/fitting_room.asp?cat=138&txt=3173

I hope that helps and gets you some physical support, as well as some moral, blog-encouraging support.

Thanks for sharing what you do!

Sincerely,
Sue