So Valentine's Day is upon us. If your lucky to have someone in your life romantically speaking, then chances are you are pro V-day. But if you don't have anyone special, then chances are you are anti V-day. And though it sucks to have no one special in your life, I feel there is one more place that is harder to be at on Valentine's Day then alone.... Purgatory (it's not just for dead people anymore). Valentine Purgatory is a killer. My friend M asked for my advice this week. See he is in Valentine Purgatory. He's been on about 5 dates with the girl he is currently with. So new, but not super new. And just enough along that he knows he is in the shitter if he doesn't do something to recognize the holiday. If he goes over too much he risks sending the wrong message of “I love you”. Which he doesn't. Too little and you could risk her thinking you are not that into her. Which he claims he is. Well, he actually said, “She's cool. Sometimes funny, but not always. Really nice … [Read more...]