Okay, so not totally sure why, but lately I have been getting just as many questions about people's dating lives as I have about cooking. I am not Dear Abby people. But ya know, if Dr. Phil can spew his crap, why can't I? So here we go. Useless dating advice from Peabody. The “doctor” is in. Number one piece of advice to you all in the joy that is the world of dating: Stay true to yourself. Women especially have a problem of losing themselves in the relationship. I did this at one time. I stopped pretty much liking/doing any of my hobbies and became completely immersed in his. His friends, his hobbies, his, his his. Now there is nothing wrong with being introduced to something new and liking it. But ditching what you like to do just to be doing what he likes to do is a no-no. And eventually will come back to bite you in the ass. When my friend L first started to date her husband she pretended to like camping because he loved camping. She was in the throws of the butterfly … [Read more...]