You want this cake…

They say that comparison is a joy thief and whoever “they” are certainly got that right. Comparison is what makes women/men hate their bodies, where they live, what car they drive, what shoe is on their foot, etc. And it makes the food blogger get down on their blog. There have been quite a few what I will call old school food bloggers (meaning we have been around awhile) feeling not so great about their blogs or their traffic…or in my case how many people comment.

Lots of people have food blogs. I mean LOTS. In just shy of two months this blog will be turning 7. Seven years of my life writing a blog about food, hockey, and sitting around in my sweatpants (they are really nice sweatpants in my defense). It makes me question at what point do I stop blogging? And it causes me to ask the question why did I start blogging in the first place?

I started blogging because I was bored at home and was married to a picky eater and needed a creative outlet. Those reasons aren’t there any more. I don’t have near the time or finances I used to have any more to bake and I date someone now who will eat literally everything I put in front of him. So then I thought, well if those reasons are gone maybe the blog should be too? But just like everything in life, things evolve and the reason why I blog changed as well.

Over the years this blog has become more of just an outlet for me to share recipes that the picky eater wouldn’t eat. It became my therapy at one point. A distraction. A vehicle in which to meet other people who love food as much as I do. A way to create a community. A way to share my sometimes out there take on desserts.

I need to remind myself that is why I do it. When I started this blog I figured my parents and maybe a handful of my friends would read it. Last year well over a million people read it. Holy crap. And I’m on track to increase that number this year. I have to remind myself that I didn’t plan on anyone outside of my immediate family commenting. That I didn’t start blogging to get comments and so I must stop saying to myself gee people used to comment all the time and now they don’t. Because they USED to. Times have changed apparently so I need to change my attitude as well.

I suggest to all my food blogger friends out there to re-examine why you are writing your blog anymore and to more importantly not care why others are. I would say that probably 50% if not more are just out for a book deal and to become the next Pioneer Woman. Ignore those people. Don’t worry if the popular bloggers won’t talk to you on Twitter/FB/Conference etc. Just focus on why YOU and YOU alone are blogging.

Or focus on chocolate…or in this case (and cake) chocolate and hazelnut. I have two super popular things on Pinterest both of which are peanut butter and chocolate. This cake is an adaption of the super popular Peanut Butter Chocolate Chip Cake.

Nutella Chocolate Chip Cake

2 ounces unsalted butter
1 cup all-purpose flour
1/4 tsp. baking soda
1/4 tsp. baking powder
1/4 tsp. salt
1/2 cup tightly packed brown sugar
3 ounces Nutella
1 large egg
1 egg yolk
1/4 cup sour cream
1/4 cup hot water
1/2 tsp. pure vanilla extract
1/2 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips

Preheat oven to 325F.

Grease three 9 x 1 1/2 inch pans.(I personally used just one 9 x 13 pan and then cut the cake in 6’s to make three mini cakes). Line your bottoms with parchment. Set aside.

Combine flour, baking powder, baking soda, and salt in a small bowl and set aside.

Beat together using a stand mixer with a paddle attachment and on medium speed the brown sugar, Nutella, and butter for two minutes. Add egg and egg yolk and mix for another 2 minutes. Scrape down the sides and mix for another minute.

Add half of the flour mixture and mix until incorporated about 20 seconds. Then add the sour cream, mixing again for 20 seconds. Gradually add the remaining flour mixture. Add the hot water in a slow, steady stream and mix on low to combine, about 30 seconds. Add the vanilla and mix for another 10 seconds. Add the chocolate chips and use a rubber spatula to finish mixing the ingredients until thoroughly combined.

Divide the cake batter into the prepared pans, spreading it evenly. Bake for about 20-22 minutes.

Let cool. Run a knife around the edge to get cake loose and carefully flip it over. Carefully!

Nutella Chocolate Glaze

5 ounces semisweet chocolate, coarsely chopped
1/2 cup heavy cream
1/8 cup granulated sugar
1/4 cup Nutella
1 TBSP unsalted butter

Place the chocolate in a bowl and set aside.

Heat the cream, butter, Nutella, sugar, and butter in a saucepan over medium heat.

When hot, stir to dissolve sugar and Nutella. Bring to a boil. Pour the cream mixture over the chocolate.

Wait 5 minutes and stir the mixture until smooth. Let cool for 20 minutes before putting on cake.

Cut cake into square pieces. Place one piece on your plate. Spread the glaze on top of the piece. Place another piece of cake on top. Top with glaze and add one last piece of cake. You should get two rectangular three layer cakes.

Adapted from Death by Chocolate Cake by Marcel Desaulniers

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  1. Great post. I don’t leave that many comments on anyone’s blog mostly because I really hate to have to jump through the anti-spam hoops but I do read your blog religiously and I love your recipes and it was because of you that I started my own blog. Also I wanted my daughter’s to fall in love with baking and cooking and have a say in each aspect. Most of the recipes I blog about are recipes they have chosen for me to bake and them to help out with. I don’t want a book deal or a tv show, I would feel too intimidated by that. I just love to cook and bake. The cake you baked looks deliciuos but unfortunately, one of my girls is allergic to nuts of any kind and peanuts too!

  2. Victoria says:

    Such good advice. Comparing myself to my sister is the worst thing I do and I’m trying to stop. We are in totally different places in our lives, yet I feel like I have to live up to her standards and lifestyle. This is sooo something I need to work on.

    This cake looks wonderful! I hope you continue to blog. Your blog was the first one I started reading!! :)

  3. Million readers ….. Where have I been !! First time here (sheepishly) love this post , so honest !! Made me think – y I blog ??? I started out to archive my recipes but somewhere fell in love with the process of blogging – cooking , sharing and peeking into other people’s kitchen :)

    Am only seeing chocolate cakes around me :) time to bake one myself – !! Popular demand my fmly has chosen your recipe :) thxs for posting !

  4. I am just a common lurker who would miss your blog posts terribly if you stopped. I’ve made several of your recipes with great success (and great raves from the partakers) and I know I can count on your recipes to be inventive and consistently turn out well. Don’t stop posting. I believe in you. :) This recipe looks fabulous–

  5. Wisdom indeed! You now have a new reader too.
    I pinned one of your recipes and just got around to clicking on the link and so far I really like what I have read and what I have seen. Can’t wait for more!

  6. I think part of the reason comments decline lately is that more people are reading in a reader/on a phone/ipad/etc and it’s more of a pain. I know I read way more blogs than I used to before I started using reader but I always click over to Peabody because I love your photos, recipes (of course), and most of all your take on things. Please stay around (even if it’s just random musings, we’ll be here!) Hugs Peabody!

  7. I don’t know why I don’t comment more…! I read all your posts..sometimes I have to catch up on 2 or 3, but I read them, and love them!

  8. Well, I know I don’t usually comment on posts because of what AnneStrawberry said… it’s too hard on different devices! But, I’ll have you know, I currently have 2 loaves of the Almond Joy bread in the oven. 30 minutes counting down… YUMMY!


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