Reality called…they want you to come back…

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Someone I know, I can’t say friend anymore (even though I was at her wedding, baby shower, baby birthdays, etc.) has adopted a new policy in life. I’m pretty sure she has been pay a little too much attention to the inspirational sayings on Pinterest, especially the one that reads “Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher”. Except like many, she misinterprets this. This phrase doesn’t mean I will sit around and blow smoke up your ass…it means surround yourself with people who will make you a better person. Sometimes that’s telling you like it is. Surrounding yourself with people who will never tell you that you are being a jack ass or screwing up royally means that you will never grow as a person…and a lot of people will think you are a jackass. :P For the record she has basically unfriended every person she knows because everyone she knows has told her that the choices she is making (and changing every other day…not kidding) are not good … [Read more...]

You liked them at one time…

When in the dating world I pay very close attention how a man talks about his ex’s. Now of course there is always that one crazy one that you date, but if he says that every one of his ex’s was a bitch or crazy, then I pass. Because I may be the next crazy bitch that he is telling his new girlfriend about. Same goes for women as well. My friend E pretty much says that every ex she has ever had is a raging a**hole. My question to her is, if that’s true…what does that say about you? You keep picking raging a-holes. Or maybe you are what is the problem with the relationships? Or my friend who I upset when she was fighting for custody over a child when her and her boyfriend broke up. He was suddenly unfit to get to spend time with the child (because screw him for wanting to leave her). Every time I have seen her ex with the child he has been nothing but great with the kid. I told her if he was fit enough to stick his dick in her and get her pregnant, then he was fit enough to be a … [Read more...]

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